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How I’m surviving Mother’s Day during this season of infertility
Mother’s Day is the day that we celebrate having amazing moms who have supported and loved us. But for many people like myself, Mother’s Day is a trigger, a reminder of my infertility, and my difficulty of becoming a mom. I know that some of you may think this it’s selfish, but it’s definitely a…
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6 things I have learned along my infertility journey.
When Dom and I decided we wanted to be parents, I stopped taking my birth control and was hoping I would be pregnant in no time. Every month I tested with high hopes only to be more and more disappointed as the months passed. When I decided to see a doctor to see what the…
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Get Up Out My Ovaries – The sequel
I never thought I would have to write a follow up to this post but I think its absolutely necessary for people to understand the truth about why it’s important not question women about having children. Back in April 2018, I took my last birth control pill and I was soooooo excited. Thinking “I’m going…
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It’s a No for me Dawg!
A few years ago, I was a yes girl. “Yes friend,” “Sure, I can come over and help you with that,” “Yeah, Chile no problem.” I was saying yes to everything friends and family asked, so afraid to upset others or let them down. I would be up late trying to complete things I needed…
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I wasn’t myself for months and nobody noticed. Adulting & anxiety.
I know I haven’t written a post in a while but I’ve been off in the world of hardcore adulting. Out here trying to get my life, keep my life and live my life. So I needed some time away to handle my personal life without so many distractions. I felt like I had nothing…
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I’ve been keeping a secret, We built a house.
Now that tomorrow is the big day, I’m so excited to say “We’ve been building a house.” Back in March (March 10th to be exact) Dom and I signed a contract to build our very first home. I’ve been keeping a lot of the details to myself because everything doesn’t need to be broadcasted. (Sometimes…
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I’m Selfishly Scared To Have Kids
So lets dig deep and talk about a small fear I have slowly started to recognize. Ya’ll I’m scared to have children. No, I’m not afraid of being pregnant and the going into labor part. NO, I’m selfishly afraid of the life changes that will transpire. Let me be clear and say yes I want…