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Pressing Pause on Expanding our Family
In September, Dom and I decided to start the fertility process again to grow our beautiful family. Many of you know we conceived Donovan in January 2020 through IUI. While the process was challenging, we’ve learned a lot and felt ready to take this next step. Last month, I had a procedure called a hysterosalpingogram…
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My Hair Crisis & Growth
2024 has been nothing short of a hair journey for me. Normally, I’ve got my hairstyles planned out for the whole year because, let’s be real, as a Black woman, you have to plan your hair in advance. Between scheduling appointments and prepping, it’s a whole thing. But earlier this year, I started having some…
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I’ve been thinking, I’ve been thinking
It feels like this year, I’ve undergone a major awakening! I’ve been diving deep into self-reflection, capturing every thought before taking action. You’ve probably heard me talk about shifting mindsets a lot, but y’all, I’m finally feeling connected to my thoughts. Lately, I’ve been pondering whether I’m a master of something or just a jack…
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We Need More Alone Time
Do you know your love language? I’ve come across various discussions about individuals and couples discovering their love languages to enhance their relationships. While I’ve always believed in its importance, it wasn’t until this past weekend that I truly understood the significance of quality time, especially alone time with your partner. Despite having weekly date…
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Legacy Building
These recent weeks have felt rather laid-back. It’s as if I’ve been neglecting my reading and other hobbies, opting instead to simply relax. Why? Because I’ve come to understand that the journey towards happiness and positivity is more like a marathon than a sprint. I’m not claiming that things have suddenly transformed for me overnight;…
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Combating Imposter Syndrome
Lately, I’ve found myself in various spaces, attending Zoom calls, and sitting in rooms where I’ve felt intimidated by the people present or their knowledge. Despite knowing my capabilities and deserving to be in those rooms, I couldn’t shake the feeling of not belonging—Imposter Syndrome. Recently, I’ve been presented with several opportunities, one of which…
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Embracing the Daily Hustle
Most weeks, my blog serves as a personal outlet rather than a platform for others. It’s a tool I use to uplift myself and stay accountable to my goals. However, this week, my focus is on tackling multiple goals simultaneously, leaving me with little to say except “girl, get the work done.” I’m juggling a…
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Remembering Granny: Navigating Grief and Finding Comfort
One hundred and nineteen days ago, I received the call from my mom, delivering the news of my grandmother’s passing. Despite knowing her time was near while she was on hospice, I clung to hope that she’d remain by my side a little longer. The call came unexpectedly, catching me in the CVS parking lot,…
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How I’m Embracing Grief. A Personal Journey of Loss and Transformation.
This week, let’s dive into the topic of my grief. The onset of 2023 marked the realization that my maternal grandmother was rapidly declining, and our time together was limited. In March of 2023, the extended family celebrated her 85th birthday, but by July, she found herself in a nursing facility fighting with congestive heart…
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A Mindset Journey that Transformed My Marriage
When you walk down the aisle, the allure of a magical and amazing life on the other side is right in front of you. The idea of ‘couple goals’ and yearning for a love like others seems enchanting. However, the reality sets in quickly, revealing that lasting marriages demand time, dedication, compromise, forgiveness, understanding, and…
Love Notes From Adriane 