Love Notes From Adriane

These recent weeks have felt rather laid-back. It’s as if I’ve been neglecting my reading and other hobbies, opting instead to simply relax. Why? Because I’ve come to understand that the journey towards happiness and positivity is more like a marathon than a sprint. I’m not claiming that things have suddenly transformed for me overnight; no, I still find myself slipping into old habits occasionally, but I always manage to bounce back.

So, in the coming days, I’m determined to rekindle that drive within me. I’m committed to reestablishing the mindset of actively pursuing my goals and striving for greatness. During my therapy session last week, I discussed my recent endeavors and the intensity with which I’ve been pursuing them. My therapist labeled this phase as my “season of legacy” – a period where I lay down the groundwork for the rest of my life. While initially refreshing to hear, it later sparked fear within me. I began to contemplate the weight of the pressure and responsibility I’ve placed upon myself. As this fear crept in, I found myself retracting from my ambitions.

I know I’m not the only one who struggles with the fear of failure. I fear falling short of creating the life I desire. Yet, I recognize that in order to manifest that life, I must be willing to put in the necessary work. After all, you miss every shot you don’t take.

So, I’m back in the game, taking those shots and eagerly chasing after rebounds. That means I’m diving back into intense workouts, with no excuses. I’m reigniting my creative endeavors, with no excuses. I’m immersing myself in reading once again, with no excuses. I’m returning to my hobbies, my aspirations, and I’m resolutely building my legacy.